Understanding

My mediation approach is rooted in the Understanding-Based model developed by the Center for Understanding in Conflict. The Understanding-Based model works toward increasing the parties' empathy and compassion. It is not therapy. As a mediator, I work to find individual solutions that fulfill your common goals. I will motivate and work with each person to have the increased capacity and resilience to take on the challenge of solving the conflict themselves. This really works. When each person becomes invested in resolving the conflict, everyone becomes more invested in upholding the agreements.

Curiosity

I listen. I ask questions. I never think ‘I have the answer for this family’ but rather ‘how can I facilitate this family’s change and turn it into something positive?’ With some collaborative digging and rebuilding, families can find the solutions that work for them. I love working with families to help them find creative out-of-the-box solutions. I am always amazed at people's ability to hang in there, tolerate the conflict, and find resolutions.